Tuesday, May 7, 2024

"it's supposed to be offensive"

 



Recently there was a "roast" shown on Netflix, of Tom Brady, the football quarterback who is very much admired by football fans.

Tom Brady's ex-wife, Giselle Bundchen, was angry about some of the stuff that was said.  She made a public statement on social media, that she was disappointed, etc.


I listened to several videos discussing the situation, and read comments -- one comment was made several times by different people, sprinkled through the rest of the comments, it said Giselle was mad because the statements were "offensive" and the Commenters insisted, "It's a roast!  It's SUPPOSED to be offensive!"


After two of the Comments that said that, I typed an answer:  

"No, it's not supposed to be offensive.

It's supposed to be funny."


(You dumb-ass.)  But no - I did not add that.

        But - I was thinkin' it.


When did people start getting "funny" mixed up with "offensive" - ?


To one of those Reply-Comments, I added, "Look up roasts with Don Rickles and Dean Martin."


[Hello??!!  Do we have to teach these people Everything??]




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Monday, May 6, 2024

flying bread-rolls




you tube comments:


~  Honestly, Princess Diana made the British Monarchy famous in the modern era.  When she died, there's no excitement or anything interesting anymore.  She's the real magic.


~  Diana inspired me to venture outside of myself, to become a better person - to help others

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All these royal family dramas kind of went down in the '90s:  I was busy being a lobbyist for small schools, going to the state capital during the legislative session every year.  What time did I have for the royal family drama?  None, really.  But I did notice it. 

Diana's book (written by Andrew Morton) came out in 1992, saying Charles never loved her but used her to have heirs anyway, and that hurt her feelings very much.  (Uh, yeah?!  Hello?!) I could hardly imagine.


And in 1994 (I think) then-Prince Charles did a TV interview where he said he never loved Diana.  (William and Harry:  "Thanks, Dad!")  

He named Andrew Parker Bowles' wife, Camilla Parker Bowles, as his real love, and then the public was like, "What is the matter with this guy?! He lies to this young girl, saying 'Let's get married, I LLUUVVV YOOOOO!' just to get an 'heir and a spare' to carry on the royal yada-yada...?"


Then, according to the You Tube videos I see (and magazines at the time) three days after Charles' TV statement, Andrew Parker Bowles put a divorce into the works, and Camilla was left alone in her "English Country House" with journalists outside trying to take her picture, and when she went to the local store to buy some groceries, other ladies who were shopping threw "bread-rolls" at her.


[I'm trying to picture that.]

At any rate, the bread-rolls were not fatal, because Camilla is still alive, and is - amazingly - the "Queen Of England."


How seriously can people take this?  LOL



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Saturday, May 4, 2024

her babysitter was dating their future king

 



If you like stories or documentaries about Diana Princess of Wales, a good one to watch is this one, on You Tube:

The Real Story Behind Princess Diana's Incredible Life

uploader / channel:  Real Royalty


        This video has people in it whose Diana stories I have never heard - Ruth Rudge, the headmistress at West Heath boarding school where Diana went; Mary Robertson, the American woman whose baby son Diana took care of when Mrs. Robertson went to work.  

        I enjoyed hearing from these people.


One of the commentators from West Heath talked about how Diana liked to be doing  things, to be busy, to help.  She would help the gardener outside, and the domestic staff indoors.  "She didn't mind what it was, as long as she felt she was helping."

        (I can relate to that - I like to help, too, though I didn't really think of it that way, consciously.)


Diana even received a prize at West Heath, for "helpfulness."


Mrs. Robertson said after it became public knowledge that Prince Charles was dating Lady Diana Spencer, Diana still came to work most days when she was scheduled, but a few times she had to call and say she couldn't come because her apartment building and surrounding streets and neighborhood were swamped with members of the press.

        Then Mrs. Robertson had to call in to her work because she had no child care.  She said her work didn't mind because people there thought it was so exciting that her babysitter was "dating their future king."

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        When I was growing up, in the 1960s and early '70s, there was an emphasis on contributing to society, on social conscience, on trying to "make the world a better place," if that isn't too 'corny.'

        After I graduated from college I became very focused on making money, having a good job, and I kind of set aside thoughts of trying to make things better.  After a few years in the workforce, I got reminded of the idea that besides helping yourself, you should make a positive social contribution as well.  


The reminder was a news story which I probably read about in People magazine where Princess Diana had visited  AIDS patients - and she shook hands with them, without gloves.  It was a big deal because there was a lot of stigma and fear around the idea of a person who had AIDS - many people were afraid to be around them or shake their hand or whatever, because they didn't want to get sick too.

It was the Eighties.


And I thought how Diana made a difference, or a point, with a simple handshake, and friendly, outgoing, personal attention.  That made an impact on me.




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Friday, May 3, 2024

nothin' good starts in a getaway car

 


I like the Taylor Swift song called "Getaway Car."

Also the song titled "Mean."


        "But you don't know what you don't know..."  


Also, there's a video on You Tube of Taylor Swift and Mick Jagger performing a Rolling Stones song together.


I can't get - no - Satisfaction

I can't get - no - Satisfaction...


I say Yes to this.


I read that some music reviewers also compared Taylor Swift's songwriting etc. to that of Bob Dylan.  So it's no wonder I like her....


Baby, better come back,

Maybe next week,

Can't you see I'm on

A losin' streak...


What must it be like, to be born with talent like that...


Don't pretend it's such a mystery...




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Thursday, May 2, 2024

...whatever 'in love' means...

 



When you watch (listen to) The Crown, you have the opportunity to contemplate what gives meaning to our lives, both as individuals, & as members of the human community.


In England, they have all these ceremonies, built on tradition and accented with pageantry.


All countries, communities, and cultures have these things, I guess:  ceremony and pageantry.  It's meant to celebrate, and emphasize, the fact that we're here, and we're trying to -  be good, and do good, and make things good, if we can.


Personally, I totally relate to the idea of trying to do good and make things good if we can - however, the pageantry and traditional ceremonies are not as much "for" me - I'm not against them for other people, they're good, but I spent my childhood sitting through things:  church; school; eeeehhhh....


Nowadays, as an older person who still feels young and reasonably energetic, I just don't want to go someplace where you have to sit until it's over.  And that's not to be critical, or mean, at all.  It's just not for me.  Been there, done that.

I didn't watch the Coronation of King Charles.  (In my imagination, bitch-slapping him for being mean to Princess Diana...)  But I read comments on the Internet from people who watched it and were really moved by the whole process - the pageantry, the music, etc.  And - more power to them, if that gives them meaning and a sense of order and organization, and "Everything is going to be OK."


In Season 3 of The Crown, there's an episode where Prince Philip is all excited about meeting the American astronauts who landed on the moon.  And when he gets to meet them, they don't have any great, overall pronouncements to give him - they're just tired, and all have colds.



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Wednesday, May 1, 2024

well...

 


 

Elvis Presley



Well, since my baby left me

Well, I found a new place to dwell

Well, it's down at the end of Lonely Street

At Heartbreak Hotel

Where I'll be, I'll be so lonely, baby

Well, I'm so lonely

I'll be so lonely, I could die


Although it's always crowded

You still can find some room

For broken hearted lovers

To cry there in their gloom,

Be so, they'll be so lonely, baby

They get so lonely

They're so lonely they could die



Now, the bellhop's tears keep flowin'

And the desk clerk's dressed in black

Well, they've been so long on Lonely Street

Well, they'll never, they'll never look back

And they get so, they get so lonely, baby

Well, they are so lonely

They're so lonely, they could die



Well, now, if your baby leaves you

And you got a tale to tell

Well, just take walk down Lonely Street

To Heartbreak Hotel

Where you will be, you will be lonely, baby

Well, you will be lonely

You'll be so lonely, you could die


[instrumental interlude]


Although it's always crowded

But you still can find some room

For broken hearted lovers

To cry there in their gloom

Where they get so, they get so lonely, baby

Well, they're so lonely

They'll be so lonely, they could die



Keith Richards

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Tuesday, April 30, 2024

Rolling Stones therapy

 


Even when things are bad and discouraging, the Rolling Stones make me really happy.

--------------------- [excerpt from Life, by Keith Richards with James Fox.  Back Bay Books.  Little, Brown and Company.  New York | Boston | London.  Copyright 2010 by Mindless Records, LLC.] -------------------- I've learned everything I know off of records.  Being able to replay something immediately without all that terrible stricture of written music, the prison of those bars, those five lines.  

Being able to hear recorded music freed up loads of musicians that couldn't necessarily afford to learn to read or write music, like me.  


Before 1900, you've got Mozart, Beethoven, Bach, Chopin, the cancan.  With recording, it was emancipation for the people.  As long as you or somebody around you could afford a machine, suddenly you could hear music made by people, not set-up rigs and symphony orchestras.  You could actually listen to what people were saying, almost off the cuff.  Some of it can be a load of rubbish, but some of it was really good.  It was the emancipation of music.  

        Otherwise you'd have had to go to a concert hall, and how many people could afford that?  It surely can't be any coincidence that jazz and blues started to take over the world the minute recording started, within a few years, just like that.  


The blues is universal, which is why it's still around.  


Just the expression and the feel of it came in because of recording.  It was like opening the audio curtains.  And available, and cheap.  It's not just locked into one community here and one community there and the twain shall never meet.  And of course that breeds another totally different kind of musician, in a generation.  I don't need this paper.  I'm going to play it straight from the heart to the fingers.  Nobody has to turn the pages.


        Everything was available in Sidcup--it reflected that incredible explosion of music, of music as style, of love of Americana.  I would raid the public library for books about America.  There were people who liked folk music, modern jazz, trad jazz, people who liked bluesy stuff, so you're hearing prototype soul.  


All those influences were there.  And there were the seminal sounds--the tablets of stone, heard for the first time.  There was Muddy.  There was Howlin' Wolf's "Smokestack Lightnin'," Lightnin' Hopkins.  And there was a record called Rhythm & Blues Vol. I.  It had Buddy Guy on it doing "First Time I Met the Blues"; it had a Little Walter track.  

        I didn't know Chuck Berry was black for two years after I first heard his music, and this obviously long before I saw the film that drove a thousand musicians--Jazz on a Summer's Day, in which he played "Sweet Little Sixteen."  


And for ages I didn't know Jerry Lee Lewis was white.  You didn't see their pictures if they had something in the top ten in America.  The only faces I knew were Elvis, Buddy Holly and Fats Domino.  It was hardly important.  It was the sound that was important.  


And when I first heard "Heartbreak Hotel," it wasn't that I suddenly wanted to be Elvis Presley.  I had no idea who he was at the time  It was just the sound, the use of a different way of recording.  The recording, as I discovered, of that visionary Sam Phillips of Sun Records.  

The use of echo.  No extraneous additions.  You felt you were in the room with them, that you were just listening to exactly what went down in the studio, no frills no nothing, no pastry.  That was hugely influential for me.



the cover of the Rolling Stones' first album in the U.K., in 1964.  L to R:  Brian Jones, Keith Richards, Bill Wyman, Charlie Watts, Mick Jagger

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