Wednesday, December 29, 2021

smash his camera II

 


Photographer Ron Galella (TIME calls him "a paparazzi pioneer") named that picture "Windblown Jackie."

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foreground:  Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis

background:  Ron Galella


        In the documentary Smash His Camera (now streaming on Amazon Prime) various people interviewed, give their opinions -- pro and con -- about Mr. Galella.  In one segment there's a volley back and forth, like ping-pong, of talking heads--some speaking well of the snapper, and others just "dragging" him like mad.


His uninvited, candid picture-taking of Mrs. Onassis inspired strong negative emotions in some people.  They could remember clearly the assassination of her first husband, President John F. Kennedy -- shot to death in the backseat of a moving open car, sitting next to Jackie.  In 1971 that Dealey Plaza debacle was only eight years in the past.


For some random photographer to be now stalking her through the streets of New York City was seen by these people as heaping cruelty on top of infamy and horror.

  "Leave Mrs. Kennedy alone!!" was their attitude.


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Tuesday, December 28, 2021

smash his camera

 


Amazon Prime has a documentary on, now, about Ron Galella, the photographer who snapped many, many famous people, "in the day."

He photographed President Kennedy's widow, Jacqueline, in Central Park one afternoon -- the Secret Service guy stepped in front of him and told Galella, "You have enough."

Galella said, "OK, I'm going."

And Mrs. Kennedy called out, "Mr. Connolly, smash his camera!"


Every time I've read that anecdote, I've wondered about its accuracy.  (Would Jackie say a violent phrase like "smash his camera"?  Was she going all gangstah on us...?)


And some genius made the title of the Galella doc, "Smash His Camera."


Hahaha, perfect.


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Thursday, December 23, 2021

I recognise the songs

 

West Side Story

1961


A December 20th article in The Guardian asks the Headline Question,

Have we witnessed the death of the Hollywood remake?


some Reader Comments


~  It was always a risk to make something that in the first incarnation was pretty much pure style.

Remakes tend to be more about the story than style.


~  The original West Side Story does not play well to the younger generation -- my 14-year-old loved the new one though.


~  The problem with West Side Story is it's old fashioned.  I know it was heralded as a great musical and the original film was good but the young generation are not interested in something that basically is a million miles from life today.


~  I wanna see this but will wait.  My mum played the soundtrack when she cooked.  I recognise the songs.

The original was on TV a couple of Christmases ago.  I put it on and from the opening shot above New York, looking down on the grid of streets with the sounds rising up then to the introductory first number my kids were transfixed.  


        They didn't know what they were watching, they couldn't comprehend this idea of a serious musical on screen.


~  There are apparently only seven plots in the world, so how "fresh" is any drama?


~  Surely the pandemic and streaming services have changed everything.

Cinema is going to really struggle this decade and there may not be many left by the end of it.  Certainly the big chains are going to struggle.  Small independents that still offer an experience (and a drink) will probably survive.  That's probably a good thing.



~  The neoliberal world has produced plenty of money but little artistic creativity in film.  Layers of management dictate what gets made and keeping the narrative within politically safe parameters shuts out differences in expression.  

        Films are endlessly rearranging the past and preventing the future from being born.


~  What about the 1970s?


~  Hollywood has been bereft of new ideas for 20 years.


~  Not to mention that movies actually used to look like something, now it's almost all CGI to the point of absurdity.  Look at the remake of "Murder on the Orient Express."  At least "Harry Potter" used a real train.

        I think the golden age of movies is the mid 50s to the mid 90s.  Big screens, big film, no CGI.  Sets were actually built, not conceived, and there was craftsmanship involved, not just technical skills no matter how impressive they are.


~  You could be describing the golden era of music as well, for probably the same reasons.


~  I'm not complaining.  My wife and daughter have gone to see it, leaving me to watch football catch-ups over a couple of pints


~  The simple truth is it will always be less risky to the investor's mind to back a remake than an original.

Which is why we get so much utter crap.


~  The average person who would go to see this is also not likely to go to the cinema at the moment.  Young people aren't interested in West Side Story or Steven Spielberg.


~  Young people don't go to the cinema.  They watch Youtube while TikToking on their phone and washing their hair.


~  The film world has been a regurgitator of old tat for a long time now.


~  It's about time, Broadway take note.  It's been a model used far too long.  Where's the newness and originality of today.  Let's hope that it changes.....how many years of the Lion King for example.


~  21st century Hollywood movies are created by shallow, greedy people (producers) whose only concern is how to make a profit.  Their goal is not to create great art or even good entertainment.  

They have contempt for their customers and continually underestimate our intelligence.  

They think, "This crap is good enough for the peasants."  


Occasionally, one of these films turns out to be quite good due to the covert efforts of the director and the editor, underlings who struggle to do good work without having their spirits crushed by their mercenary bosses.  

You can see the results if you scroll through the offerings on streaming movie channels:  99% of the films available are crap, just as the producers intended.


~  I'm not interested in remakes and the words 'movie franchise' make me grit my teeth.


~  "Have we witnessed the death of the Hollywood remake?"

No.  Next.


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Wednesday, December 22, 2021

seven plots

 


On Amazon Prime I recently re-watched a movie I had seen in the theater in the early '90s, where a battered wife fakes her own death to escape her husband.

        Then today I streamed a 2006 TV-movie where a soon-to-be-ex-husband fakes his own and his young son's deaths so he won't have to share custody with the kid's mother.  (A little extreme, right?)


        The wife / mother has been believing her ex and little boy died and then she accidentally finds out, 14 years later, that the son is probably still alive on a tourist-type island out in the ocean.


So she goes looking for her son.  This is when I started to think about that earlier movie -- even the means of faking the death was the same:  out on a boat on the ocean, a storm comes up, and --

1990s film:  wife "apparently drowns during the storm"

2006 TV-movie:  4-year-old son and dad "apparently drown during the storm."


In the battering-movie, the husband discovers by chance, from someone's remark that his wife knew how to swim, after all...!  Similar to the mom in the other movie -- she sees an 18-year-old guy in some friends' vacation pictures and is sure that's her son.

Is this believable?  Too much of a coincidence?  I don't go that deep -- I'm not there to "fight with" the movie.  If it's well-told and I'm hooked on the suspense, I'll go with it.


The mom is off to that island to look for her son -- just like the Hitting-Husband in the earlier movie takes off across the country, from the East Coast to the West Coast, so he can find his Disappearing Fugitive Wife.  

He wants to either batter/bully her into submission or kill her -- the Searching Mom wants to just find her son.  And -- tell him "I'm your mom, I love you" and she's probably pretty mad at the ex-husband.  

        But I don't have the impression that she wants to batter or kill him.


        She doesn't seem super-angry:  it's more like she's in a sort of "Trance of Grief."  She's a little bit like a soft-spoken robot.


In the earlier movie, there's that moment when the wife realizes her husband may have been in the house where she's living now -- he may have found her.  

It's not unlike in the other one, where the ex-husband and father hears some info from the son over the phone and realizes his ex-wife is onto him.  His facial expression of "uh-oh!" is similar.  

He tells his son to leave immediately and meet him on another island.  (They have boats.)


I don't know how the Lost-Son one ends, yet -- I had to go to work.


One wonders, did the writers "copy" the idea from the earlier movie?  On the other hand, there are theories that only a certain number of story-lines exist, in humanity.


>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> 

Google:  "number of plots in literature."

Many academics, most notably author Christopher Booker, believe there are only seven basic narrative plots in all of storytelling -- frameworks that are recycled again and again in fiction but populated by different settings, characters, and conflicts.

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

1. Overcoming the Monster

2. Rags to Riches

3. The Quest

4. Voyage and Return

5. Rebirth

6. Comedy

7. Tragedy

______________________

But -- What about faking your own death in the ocean during a storm...?  I guess I'm caught up in the specifics, and Mr. Booker is speaking more generally....


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Tuesday, December 21, 2021

avoiding scrutiny; courting disaster

 


Actor Chris Noth (Mike Logan on early-90s Law and Order; "Mr. Big" on Sex and the City) is suddenly facing accusations of S.A. from three women.  The stories reported sound similar to the Bill Cosby activities, but without the drugs.  Odd stuff.

        Like -- If these stories are accurate it sounds like Mr. Noth wanted to sort of toy with the idea of "consent" -- like instead of Two Consenting Adults, how about maybe One aggressive adult and another adult who's not having such a good time....


A whole other area of behavior that most of us would not be too familiar with.  One of the women said he texted her the next day and asked her if she had a good time--saying, "I thought it was fun, but I wasn't sure how you felt."

Dicey.


And then if they allow Comments on these stories, it's just a free-for-all, a lot of it really disturbing.  "Why did she accept his invitation to go to his apartment if she didn't expect to be raped?"

(??)

(!!)

I see both sides of that.  If any woman younger than me asked my advice on going to a date's home, to be alone, I would give the standard advice, I guess -- if this is a new relationship and you haven't been intimate and you don't intend to become intimate -- well -- tonight -- then maybe stay in public spaces -- restaurant, theater, go for a walk, etc.


        But it's also true that I would not think to say, "Well don't go to his house and be alone with him because then he has the right to sexually assault you."  No -- that's not right.


Civilized people assume other people are going to behave in a civilized manner.  We assume we're on the same page, as far as acceptable behavior.  (There's that adage:  When you assume, you make an 

ass

of

u 

and

me.)


So -- we mustn't assume the other person will behave in a civilized manner if we are alone.  Then we basically have to be on guard because -- everybody can be a psycho?  Well, yes--that is kind of what we were taught in our young-and-growing-up years, come to think of it.

And Chris Noth, married with two children, the whole time.

Blah-blah-blah.


One of the articles quotes an expert who says, "It's important to keep in mind that people who perpetrate abuse are often skilled in how they present themselves and how they use their power and position to try and avoid scrutiny."


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Monday, December 20, 2021

queen of hearts; earl of scandals

 


I was trying to put someone else's picture on here, but it wouldn't go so I tried for a Princess Diana picture.  (She never lets us down.)

Evidently the Sex And The City actor I was trying to give space to here thinks himself not only too important for my blog, but more important than Princess Diana.  

Good luck with that, bud.


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Friday, December 17, 2021

each glance and every little movement

 


"The Mary Tyler Moore Show" ran for seven seasons in the '70s (can that be a song? -- "Seven Seasons In The Seventies," by the Tumbling Rocks...).

All the seasons are on You Tube right now -- if you want to watch some but not all, select Seasons 1, 2, and 3.

If you had to narrow it down more, then just play Seasons 2 and 3.  That is the ultimate Diamond-Goldness of the show, right there.

        That was the height of all of the components of a great work of comedy -- all the notes being hit just how we needed them.

I want Season 1 in there, too, because first seasons of shows are where it's finding its legs -- the characters that have been created are being further discovered, etc.

        In the first season, there are a few clunky moments because writers, directors, actors -- everybody -- is still finding their way.  And there are also these amazing, surprising points where the rubber meets the road -- the lightning goes into the bottle and doesn't get back out -- and the live audience will erupt in laughter and delighted screams of mirth and recognition ("I know someone just like that!").


Who can turn the world on with her smile?

Who can take a nothing day 

And suddenly make it all seem worthwhile?

Well, it's you, girl, and you should know it...


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Thursday, December 9, 2021

keep away the cold

 


Broadway


On You Tube, type in

steam heat, the pajama game

and play.


I got (clang) (clang) s-s-s-steam heat,

I got (clang) (clang) s-s-s-steam heat,

I got (clang) (clang) s-s-s-steam heat,

But I need your love to keep away the cold


I got (clang) (clang) s-s-s-steam heat,

I got (clang) (clang) s-s-s-steam heat,

I got (clang) (clang) s-s-s-steam heat,

But I can't get warm - without your hand to hold


The radiator's hissin' - still I need your kissin'

To keep me from freezin' each night...


     

        All these old musicals -- I remember my mother taking me to see a college production of Guys and Dolls when I was junior-high age, in Ohio.  It was outdoors -- probably Kent State students putting it on, I can't remember--I don't remember the plot or the music, either, but the event stays in my mind and it's a pleasant recollection.  I had a feeling of, "This is it.  This is perfect, and where I want to be."


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Wednesday, December 8, 2021

an Eisenhower state of mind

 


If we want to get into a 1950s state of mind, Amazon Prime will help us -- their streaming site is currently bristling with cold-war-era musicals:

Pal Joey

Damn Yankees

Guys And Dolls

The Pajama Game

        (1957; 1958; 1955; 1957, respectively)


Pal Joey is being revived on Broadway soon.

        The 1957 film had Kim Novak in it.  (My main Kim Novak film reference is Hitchcock's Vertigo [1958].)


The Pajama Game has Reta Shaw in it:  in the 1960s, she appeared on "Bewitched" several times, as one of Samantha's relatives.


Guys And Dolls has Frank Sinatra in it and Marlon Brando.  The stage version of Guys and Dolls included a song called "A Bushel and a Peck" which is also in the 2009 film, Julie and Julia, where they cook their way through Mastering the Art of French Cooking.


Guys And Dolls the film was directed by Joseph L. Mankiewicz, who directed two of my favorite classic movies, A Letter To Three Wives, and All About Eve.

        This version of Guys and Dolls is based on the 1950 Broadway musical, with a "book" (as they call it in the theater) by Jo Swerling and Abe Burrows.


Abe Burrows is mentioned in Woody Allen's' autobiography:

--------------------------- [excerpt] ------------ I would do some gag writing for a while, perhaps, for Hope, perhaps for Berle or Jack Benny....  It was somewhere at that time that my relatives suggested I have a talk with a very distant relative by marriage, Abe Burrows....I asked the aunt, who said she couldn't help me except to say he lived at the Beresford, the stylish West Side co-op.  

"How can I contact him?" I asked shyly.  My mother, more aggressive than General Patton, said, "You don't have to contact him.  You know where he lives.  Just go over to his house." ---------------- [end, excerpt]


Abe Burrows' son James Burrows worked on The Mary Tyler Moore Show, The Bob Newhart Show, Taxi, Cheers, Frasier, and more.


In Damn Yankees, Ray Walston ("My Favorite Martian" 1963 - 1966) is Satan -- he appears to a frustrated baseball fan and promises him success at his goals, but then the devil will own his soul, that's the bargain.

        ...Like The Devil and Daniel Webster, etc.  I looked up on Wikipedia the theme of people selling their soul to the devil, in literature, film, etc. -- under the title, "Deals with the Devil in popular culture" -- the list is long!  This theme has even been used in games.


        OK -- here it is:  the New World Encyclopedia says,

------------------ [excerpt] ----------------- Faust, or Faustus (Latin for "auspicious" or "lucky") is the protagonist of a classic German legend who makes a pact with the Devil.

The archetypal tale is the basis for many literary, artistic, cinematic, and musical works produced over several hundred years, by artists including Christopher Marlowe, Goethe, Thomas Mann, Hector Berlioz, Franz Liszt, Oscar Wilde and Charles Gounod.  

        Each retelling of the Faust legend builds, in some way, off of the previous versions. --------------------- [end, excerpt] -------------


So this is what's behind the expression, "a Faustian bargain."


From the Rock & Roll Hall of Fame:

"Legend has it that Robert Johnson met the devil at a crossroads and gave him his soul in exchange for mastery of the guitar.  Steeped in mystery, killed mysteriously, his legend eclipsed only by his skill, Robert Johnson may be the first ever rock star."


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Tuesday, December 7, 2021

book ends

 

Rodgers and Hart


Before there was Rodgers and Hammerstein 

(Oklahoma!

South Pacific

The Sound of Music)

there was Rodgers and Hart.


One of their songs, "I Could Write A Book," was in Pal Joey (currently on Amazon Prime) and it was also in When Harry Met Sally... (1989).

If they ask me, I could write a book

About the way you walk and whisper and look

I could write a preface on how we met

So the world would never forget


And the simple secret of the plot

Is just to tell them that I love you a lot

Then the world discovers as my book ends

How to make two lovers of friends...


_____________________

Also written by Rodgers and Hart for Pal Joey is a song titled "Bewitched, Bothered and Bewildered"

...Couldn't sleep, and wouldn't sleep

When love came and told me, I shouldn't sleep...


This song is also sung in the Woody Allen movie Hannah and Her Sisters, 1986, and also in The Crown (Netflix).  In both of these films, the song is not performed onstage by a professional, it's being sung by characters in the story, in a casual, family setting.


_____________________________

Another R & H song included in Pal Joey, "The Lady Is a Tramp," was originally written for a Broadway musical titled, Babes in Arms.

I used to see that title & think, Wow, a little inappropriate -- he's calling a lady a "tramp" - that could have consequences... But then Wikipedia explains it all:

------------------------- [excerpt] This song is a spoof of New York high society and its strict etiquette (the first line of the verse is "I get too hungry for dinner at eight...") and phony social pretensions.  It has become a popular music standard.

[end / excerpt]


This is one of those songs where, I've heard it and cannot remember where --


She gets too hungry, for dinner at eight

She likes the theater and never comes late

She never bothers, with people she'd hate

That's why the lady is a tramp


Doesn't like crap games, with barons or earls

Won't go to Harlem in ermine and pearls

Won't dish the dirt with the rest of the girls

That's why the lady is a tramp

She loves the free, fresh wind in her hair

Life without care...


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Tuesday, November 30, 2021

"I Could Write a Book"

 


Pal Joey has showed up on Amazon Prime streaming -- along with Damn Yankees.

(I used to think the latter was about the Civil War, but turns out it's something about baseball....)


Pal Joey's billing, for the 1957 film version, was

Rita Hayworth

Frank Sinatra

Kim Novak.


A reporter asked the "Chairman of the Board" how Ms. Hayworth's name came to be at the top, rather than his -- Sinatra answered casually, "Ladies first."


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Monday, November 29, 2021

half-deserted streets; muttering retreats

 

a painting of the poet T.S. Eliot


I have this book titled, The Art Of X-Ray Reading, by Roy Peter Clark.  

I start reading it, and he starts talking about T.S. Eliot's poem, "The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock," and I remember reading (and discussing, and analyzing) that poem in freshman year English literature class at Boston University.  15 students, approx., we sat around a table, and the professor sat with us, or walked around, talking and calling on people and writing stuff on a blackboard.

----------------------------------------------

        [beginning of the poem]

Let us go then, you and I,

When the evening is spread out against the sky

Like a patient etherized upon a table;

Let us go, through certain half-deserted streets,

The muttering retreats

Of restless nights in one-night cheap hotels

And sawdust restaurants with oyster-shells:

Streets that follow like a tedious argument

Of insidious intent

To lead you to an overwhelming question ...

Oh, do not ask, "What is it?"

Let us go and make our visit.


In the room the women come and go

Talking of Michelangelo.


The yellow fog that rubs its back upon the window-panes,

The yellow smoke that rubs its muzzle on the window-panes,

Licked its tongue into the corners of the evening,

Lingered upon the pools that stand in drains,

Let fall upon its back the soot that falls from chimneys,

Slipped by the terrace, made a sudden leap,

And seeing that it was a soft October night,

Curled once about the house, and fell asleep.


And indeed there will be time

For the yellow smoke that slides along the street,

Rubbing its back upon the window-panes;

There will be time, there will be time

To prepare a face to meet the faces that you meet;

There will be time to murder and create,

And time for all the works and days of hands

That lift and drop a question on your plate;

Time for you and time for me,

And time yet for a hundred indecisions,

And for a hundred visions and revisions,

Before the taking of a toast and tea.


In the room the women come and go

Talking of Michelangelo. ...

        [it continues]

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        Clark begins, in his Introduction:

Where do writers learn their best moves?  They learn them from a technique I call X-ray reading.  They read for information or vicarious experience or pleasure, as we all do.  But in their reading, they see something more.  It's as if they had a third eye or a pair of X-ray glasses....


        This special vision allows them to see beneath the surface of the text.  There they observe the machinery of making meaning, invisible to the rest of us.  Through a form of reverse engineering, a good phrase used by scholar Steven Pinker, they see the moving parts, the strategies that create the effects we experience from the page--effects such as clarity, suspense, humor, epiphany, and pain.  

These working parts are then stored in the writer's toolshed in boxes with names such as grammar, syntax, punctuation, spelling, semantics, etymology, poetics, and that big box--rhetoric.


        Let's get to work.

        Please put on your new X-ray reading glasses so we can examine the titles of a couple of famous literary works.  The first is "The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock" (1915), by T.S. Eliot.  (The poet died in 1965, my senior year in high school, when I became the keyboard player in a rock band called T.S. and the Eliots.)


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Friday, November 26, 2021

my feet haven't touched pavement since I reached Los Angeles

 


The movie Annie Hall is on Amazon Prime, you can stream it!

Full of surprises, laughs, and truths, this film has a lot of heart, story-wise, and visually it's got a plush, pithy magic that makes it sublimely relevant at any stage of the human experience.


There's a scene in the Los Angeles segment where it's a cocktail party -- bouncy, jazzy music, & people milling around smiling and talking -- movie-industry guys in conversation:

1st MAN

Well, you take a meeting with him, I'll take a meeting with you if you'll take a meeting with Freddy.


2nd MAN

I took a meeting with Freddy.  Freddy took a meeting with Charlie.  You take a meeting with him.


1st MAN

All the good meetings are taken.


3rd MAN

Right now it's only a notion, but I think I can get money to  make it into a concept ... and later turn it into an idea.

___________________________________

Recently, watching episodes of -- well -- "Episodes" on Netflix, it occurred to me that someone could have watched that brief scene in Annie Hall and then said, hey let's build on that and make a whole television series out of people like this "in the business" who are constantly going crazy because of all the pressure and duplicitousness.


        I wanted to talk about Annie Hall here, but it's harder than I would have imagined.  Not easy to explain why the movie works so well and I could watch it over again any time, any number of times.

        The writer and director tells the story with a series of vignettes that just sort of say to the audience who these people are and who they are becoming, and the various yearnings and impulses that draw them together as a romantic couple, and split them apart.

        It isn't linear -- this happened, then this, then this....  Instead it's like photographs spread out on a table, not in any order.  A scene over here--an emotional connection over there...a little conflict or misunderstanding, as people evolve...


I would think it's the editing that makes this movie a quintessential expression of several cultural revolutions of the last century -- freedom of the individual, freedom of relationships, artistic freedom, and the necessity of being true to the self as well as to social and traditional obligations.


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Wednesday, November 24, 2021

days hurrying by

 


On a Happy Thanksgiving, gratitude balloons can include --

blue sky

gray sky

warm rooms

cooking aromas

people we love to see

autumn leaves in crackly swirls

pure hearts

thoughtful stories

pumpkin pie

dogly companions

treasured cats

music and books

snappy cucumber

porch swings

appreciation for the life God gave us

peace

______________________________________


Blue skies smilin' at me

Nothin' but blue skies do I see

Bluebirds singin' a song

Nothin' but blue skies from now on


I never saw the sun shinin' so bright

Never saw things goin' so right

Noticing the days hurrying by

When you're in love, my how they fly by


Blue days, all of them gone

Nothin' but blue skies from now on


Blue skies smilin' at me

Nothin' but blue skies do I see

Blue days all of them gone

Nothin' but blue skies from now on


Blue skies smilin' at me

Nothin' but blue skies do I see

Blue days all of them gone

Nothin' but blue skies from now on


Blue skies smilin' at me

Nothing but blue skies, do I see

Blue days all of them gone

Nothin' but blue skies from now on


{songwriter:  Irving Berlin  (1888 - 1989)

Willie Nelson recording of "Blue Skies" -- 1978}


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Tuesday, November 23, 2021

Diet Of Worms (totally not what it sounds like)

 


I went on You Tube recently to search for something to give me some comfort:  you can always switch to another video or turn down the sound if it turns out to be not-helpful....  I realize it's just everybody on there talking, but sometimes there is a video that offers various ways to look at situations and life, and helps you manage your feelings.


I listened to one video from a rather peppy priest -- a young man, wearing the collar, speaking energetically to the camera, and I thought it was OK at first, except then he got into some differentiation that he says God makes, and I just couldn't believe it -- I thought, My goodness! -- That's a pretty petty God you're believin' in there, my friend.


God  may be many things, but I do not believe He is petty.  The teachings I grew up with were all -- "God is love."

        Of course, this priest is a Roman Catholic -- but I didn't think his ideas would be far from mine.  I assumed they would be basically the same.  If a minister or rabbi would have showed up first, I would have clicked on that video....I always think Jewish, Protestant, Catholic -- all the same God and same idea:  be nice; don't kill people.


But his video teachings were far from my ideas -- getting all authoritarian on us -- no wonder Martin Luther put up the notice on the door about starting a different church.  Vatican was getting too bossy.


This is the potential problem for any institution, any hierarchy, or bureaucracy.  They get carried away with making rules for other people and -- the ultimate "drug" for narcissists, sociopaths, psychopaths, and the personality-disordered:  control.

Suffice it to say, I did not find comfort from that you tube video.


I almost typed in a comment to tell the guy why he was wrong ("you might be that petty, but God isn't!") -- and just thinking about doing this did give me a little comfort -- but then I said, Do I want to spend my free time "arguing" with miscellaneous members of the clergy, over the Internet?


Instead, I traveled to Netflix to watch "Episodes."  This is a situation comedy that was on Showtime 2011 to 2017, starring Matt LeBlanc (Joey on "Friends") as himself.

Funny; true; cynical; not for children.


In the show, Matt's phone has a very catchy ringtone:  Google tells us it is a jazz piece titled, "Two Time" by Syd Dale.


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Monday, November 22, 2021

Friday, November 19, 2021

time and possessions; stuff and hours

 


The Washington Post had an article about getting rid of stuff --

from the Comment section:


I don't care what anyone says.  I'm hanging on to my father's giant monkey wrench, suitable for the lug nuts on a semi.  (His reaction would be to shake his head at the stupidity, but to me it's an exemplary memento.)

Just keep it by the front door and tell people it is in case of prowlers or coyotes.


I'm with you!  My father died about 6 years ago, and my mother asked me if there was anything of his that I'd like as a memento.  I asked for his set of Spintite socket wrenches with wooden handles.  He was forever tinkering with his car's engine, and did all the tune ups and repairs himself.  They are today atop my bedroom dresser, and I smile whenever I look at them.


Father-in-law shipped us a bunch of stuff we asked for but threw in a few things we specifically said we didn't want.  Including a huge rug that had been on their living room floor forever.  When the movers took it out of the van it literally broke apart and the movers put it right into a convenient dumpster.

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Readers batter back and forth:

"Keep it!"

"Get rid of it!"

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Material objects can symbolize other aspects of life besides themselves.  They can represent something.

And then you're into the realm of meaning, which really resides in the imagination, and memories and emotions a person associates with experiences.


A clean, blank wall.

A wall filled with pictures.

A clean, blank wall with one picture in the middle....


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Thursday, November 18, 2021

the infinite realms of music

 


When The Guardian runs a story about The Beatles' music, a thousand Reader Comments is not unusual. ...


You fought either for democracy or fascism in this context.  Modern Democracy is a project that aims towards greater and greater representation and inclusion, even if it doesn't always achieve this.  Fascism is a counter-enlightenment project, that aims for the opposite.


And the Beatles as exporters of British culture:  I first saw this film in Germany, when it came out.  When the police officers appeared on the roof the young audience clapped, which baffled me.  I asked my German friend why they clapped and he responded that it was because the police officers were not wearing gun holsters or carrying guns


Whatever one's opinion of Oasis, they openly discussed (and sometimes copied) their influences.  To my then 12-year-old mind back in late '96, they were a gateway into the infinite realms of music.  My first stop was The Beatles.  We might be 60 years down the road but their progression remains mindblowing and, most importantly, the songwriting is still staggering.


The Beatles were the real deal, a cultural phenomenon that might never be repeated.  

One of the most amazing things about them was that they accomplished their historical achievements in a mere decade which saw them progress from their early rockabilly and pop phase to creating some of the most artistically compelling and innovative music of the rock era in albums like Revolver and Abbey Road.  


        An underrated influence on the Let It Be period Beatles was The Band whose Music from Big Pink released in 1968 helped shift Rock away from psychedelia back to its roots in Blues, Country and Folk.  

        George especially had already come under the spell of The Band after his visit to their home in Woodstock NY and some of the tensions you see during the Get Back and Let It Be sessions are reflective of George trying to shift the Beatles towards a more organic The Band-like sound.



Now in my late 60s, I want to get to the stage in life where people say how did you manage to get to this age and instead of the usual didn't drink, ate salad etc I want to say I listened to a Beatles song every day.


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Tuesday, November 16, 2021

when we grow up

 


I was thinking about when we are little, little kids -- kindergarten or younger -- and a grown-up would ask us, "What do you want to be when you grow up?"

When I was 5 or 6, someone asked me that and I answered, "A nurse."  I said nurse because the neighbor girl in Akron, Sherry Witherspoon, said nurse.  She was two or three years older than me, and I copied many things she did and said.  

I hardly knew what a nurse did - I had some idea, I guess.  But I do remember the feeling I had a little later, that I had been insincere, that I really didn't want to be a nurse, but I thought I was required to have some kind of an answer.

Later, I had my own ideas.


Today I read someone's Comment under an article -- she wrote that all little girls want to be princesses (to dress up as princesses, I think she meant) and marry a rich man.

        Reflecting on this, I realized that dressing up in a ballerina costume was the closest I came to wanting to be like a princess.  And that by third or fourth grade, I wanted to be a spy.  And an author.


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Friday, November 12, 2021

snow globe of nothingness

 



a poem


title:


oh crap, winter



Winter came too early and too cold

Brutal thwacking wind

Hammers our heads

When we go out.

Snow, unwelcome, swirled madly

Rejoicing in its wickedness,

To slicken our sidewalks and 

Make everything more difficult.


A coal black cat

With copper green eyes

Gives us more optimism

Than any other influence

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Monday, November 8, 2021

adultery; unreasonable behavior; insanity



John Lithgow portraying Winston Churchill in The Crown


        In The Crown, Winston Churchill describes U.S. diplomatic skills:

"Americans like to wave the big stick and speak with a loud voice!"


That's not the quote!  President Theodore Roosevelt said, "Speak softly and carry a big stick."


Did the people writing The Crown mess this up?  Or are they hinting that Churchill probably mixed up the quote -- accidentally-on-purpose...?  


Roosevelt said "a big stick."  In the Netflix series, Churchill says "the big stick" -- as if there is only one.  


Right now, I'm totally into Seasons 1 and 2.  So well written and just rich with nuance, detail, and layering.


Prince Philip is quite a character.  In the early years, he seems to have been pretty much the opposite of what was needed.  Gosh, he's supposed to take care of the queen, and help her, & instead he adds to her problems.

If she has three problems, when he walks into the room, now she has four problems.

If she has five problems, her husband walks in the room now she has six.

If she has 9 problems...well, you get the drift.


When the queen mother discusses with the young queen what they can do as a send-off for Churchill when he retires, the mother suggests go to dinner with the Churchills at Downing Street (where the Prime Minister lives and works) because "it would be quite the compliment."

        The queen says, "I'll ask Philip."

        The queen mother rejoins:  "You'll tell Philip."

        When I heard that I thought, Right, because that guy never wants to do anything and complains about everything.

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        And apparently in that era -- 1930s to '60s -- they were still having a cow if anyone connected with the royal family got a divorce.  There were three things that provide grounds for divorce:

adultery

unreasonable behavior

insanity.


        Stark.


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Sunday, November 7, 2021

Prince Charles, Nixon, and the road to Damascus

There are many interviews on the Internet where people talk but don't say anything.

Interestingly, if the interview is on you tube and Comments are allowed, while the interview says nothing, the Comments will say everything!  Everything and more!

         Way more than necessary, sometimes.

I've noticed three topics that will bring out the crazy in the comments:

politics

religion, and

the British royal family.

          Not every video on these topics draws crazy comments, but some do.  The blithering incoherence is astounding, at times.  The words typed in get jumbled and thrown into chaos, like a blender.  Reading, you often have to give up and skip on to the next comment, see if you can get any sense out of that one.

        I've come to wonder whether royal family, politics, and religion drive normal commenters temporarily mad, or if perhaps these three subjects draw a different audience.


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Wednesday, November 3, 2021

the steaks were too high

 I read in an Internet comment, "the stakes were too high" only the commenter spelled it as "steaks".

I love it when people do that.

It brings a whole new meaning -- gives a whole different picture.

The steaks are too high.

And you imagine several filet mignons on beautiful plates, floating up in the air above your head.  Too high - we can't reach them - they're just drifting, up there.

The steaks --

are too ... high....


Watching the movie, "Going In Style" -- I couldn't decide if it was a good comedy, or a bit of a mistake.

It has some interesting music in it including "Memories Are Made Of This" - Dean Martin.


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Thursday, October 28, 2021

straight ahead and rest assured

 


Earlier this week I posted the lyrics to the Sylvia hit song "Nobody" here -- it got me thinking about songs that you can't get out of your head unless you -- change your identity and move to another country.


("I now identify as Belizean.")


What makes a hit song?

With "Nobody," I think it's that classic combination of well-written lyrics, beguiling melody, and rhythm that feels, simultaneously, pleasantly reliable and innovative.  It surprises the listener just enough.


"You say nobody's after you,

The fact is what you say is true..."


Seriously, somehow I found my way to that song on You Tube and then I just couldn't stop playing it, and after I did manage to stop playing it ("OK, I've heard it enough") snatches of it still keep showing up in my brain!


"Sittin' in a restaurant, she walked by..."


(I can't escape!!)


---------------------------- That led me to thinking of another song that's so bouncy and jubilant and even exciting that once you play it, it's like Lay's potato chips....


♪♪♪ ♪

[bong!]  (a chord)

This is it!

(This is it)

This is life, the one you get

So go and have a ball


This is it!

(This is it)

Straight ahead and rest assured

You can't be sure at all.

So while you're here enjoy the view

Keep on doin' what you do

So hold on tight we'll muddle through

One day at a time,

(One day at a time)


So up on your feet!

(Up on your feet!)

Somewhere there's music playing

Don't you worry none

We'll just take it like it comes


One day at a time (one day at a time)

One day at a time (one day at a time)

One day at a time (nah-nana-nah)

One day at a time

(One day at a time)

One day at a --

Nah-nana-nah --

one day at a time!


{"One Day At A Time" -- network situation comedy, 1975 - 1984}

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After playing a video of this tv-show theme song on You Tube, I read some Comments -- one guy said he loved this song so much as a kid, he took his Fisher Price tape recorder and held it up to the TV and recorded it, then played it later in his room and danced, doing all the things the actors did in the intro.


He finished the comment with, "I was lame as hell."


I thought he was not "lame," but great; I only wished I had thought of doing that.


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