thinkin' everything was all right

     Reading Comments on You Tube one night, I came across one where a lady wrote,

----------------- Let me tell you the secret to our long marriage:  we never talk about our marriage, and we never talk to each other unless it is necessary. --------------------

     That sort of runs counter to the typical advice people hear:

"Communication!"

"Communication!"

"It's all about COMM - UUUNNN-IH -- CAAY -- SHUNN!!!!"

LOL

Advice:  How can you solve a problem if you don't talk about it?

Real Life:  One person telling the other person, "There's a problem, and you're it.  You need to change because I say so."

     There's an actual Broadway play -- for real, in real life -- titled,

I Love You, You're Perfect, Now Change


     I have never seen this play, but isn't that a great title?  (Maybe we don't need to see the play, the title tells it...)

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Monica:  "Do you think we talk about our relationship enough?"

Chandler:  "Yes.  Do we have any fruit roll-ups?"

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